Dear Home,
First of all, I got the package a week ago. I was wrong. oops! And what a package it was!!! Holy cow! I'm so grateful for all the things you sent, I was really surprised! Thank you for the brownie mix, corn muffins, and pineapple coconut cookies. The week before I received the package, Elder Jones asked me what my favorite cookie was, and I told him pineapple coconut. He had no idea what that was. I laughed when I opened up the box to fine those cookies in there! I had him try one, and he said that they're delicious, and they were! The recipes and cookbook saved us several times this past week. The timing of those items really was impeccable. We're still trying to figure out how to shop for and feed 3 people instead of 2, and we would have run out of food long before p-day if I hadn't had those recipes. It was a lot of fun letting my companions be my guinea pigs as I tried making new things for the first time. Indian Fry Bread has become a favorite of Elder Christensen's. Also, thanks so much to Karen for the tie! I love it, and Elder Jones is jealous of me when I wear it ;) . The Frisbees have been fun, too. We're probably some of the only missionaries in the mission with an apartment big enough to toss a frisbee. We actually had a "If our parents saw us doing this right now..." moment. Don't worry. Missionaries don't have nice enough things to break. And how could I forget about the helmet?? It fits so nicely, and it's a really good color! Thank you thank you thank you!!! Have I forgotten anything? If I have, know that it was greatly appreciated!
Elder Christensen is "pre-trained" because he's really smart, follows all the rules, knows how to teach, and is already a really good missionary. We call them "pre-trained" when the trainer doesn't hardly have to work to train them because they already know all their stuff!
This week, we're looking forward to the baptism of Eli. He stopped drinking on Friday, and if he keeps it up, he can get baptized on Saturday! We'll be making daily visits to his house to make sure he knows he's supported in this every step of the way.
The Uyeharas would like me to tell you that they are keeping their promise to keep me singing. I sang "Oh Lord, My Redeemer" in sacrament meeting, and then an arrangement of "Nearer My God, To Thee" at a devotional for investigators and missionaries yesterday. They keep me busy.
We're been extremely blessed with new investigators and referrals and discovery of inactive members this week. I have to write everything down in my planner and refer to it often just to keep all the people straight! I will let you know about each of them as we discover more about them, and help them get baptized/ reactivate into the church.
I decided to send you a portion of my letter to the mission president this week (mostly because I don't have time to re-write it, ha ha). Here it is:
"This week, we taught a lady who had her records removed from the church a year or so ago, but invited us over to teach her because she was looking for a church to raise her newborn daughter in. She told us that a friend of her's had shown her some anti-mormon literature, and convinced her that the church was false. When we taught her the first time, we simply taught by testifying, and addressed each question that she had. She seemed flustered and frustrated after our first meeting, and asked us to leave and come back another time so she could do some studying. When we returned, things went about the same way as they did the first time, only the topics were slightly different. After carefully and lovingly addressing each concern that she had, she told us that she was going to stop there, and that she didn't want us to come back. At that point, we realized that there was nothing more that we could do for her, except to bear our testimonies. That's just what we did. Each of us confirmed afterwards that the spirit was incredibly strong as each of us took our turn, and personally testified of the truthfulness of our message. When we had finished, she still continued to tell us that she had come to the conclusion that she didn't want to come back to the LDS church. We thanked her for her time, and went on our way. In my opinion, that was a case in which an investigator exercised their agency, and we had to let her go."
"This week, we taught a lady who had her records removed from the church a year or so ago, but invited us over to teach her because she was looking for a church to raise her newborn daughter in. She told us that a friend of her's had shown her some anti-mormon literature, and convinced her that the church was false. When we taught her the first time, we simply taught by testifying, and addressed each question that she had. She seemed flustered and frustrated after our first meeting, and asked us to leave and come back another time so she could do some studying. When we returned, things went about the same way as they did the first time, only the topics were slightly different. After carefully and lovingly addressing each concern that she had, she told us that she was going to stop there, and that she didn't want us to come back. At that point, we realized that there was nothing more that we could do for her, except to bear our testimonies. That's just what we did. Each of us confirmed afterwards that the spirit was incredibly strong as each of us took our turn, and personally testified of the truthfulness of our message. When we had finished, she still continued to tell us that she had come to the conclusion that she didn't want to come back to the LDS church. We thanked her for her time, and went on our way. In my opinion, that was a case in which an investigator exercised their agency, and we had to let her go."
I've learned that sometimes, after you've done everything you can do to help someone resolve their concerns about the church, they will still reject you. At that point there's nothing you can do but bear you testimony, and then the choice is up to the investigator whether or not the accept our invitation.
I'm still loving it down here on the island! Happy Birthday to Grandma Crapo, and I love you all so much! I look forward to hearing about the family reunion!
-Elder Crapo